Saturday, April 14, 2012

Catching up

I said I'd be offline for a bit, but I didn't say why.
 Mid 1995, I went to Indonesia to spend a year studying in Central Java. For a year, I lived in a boarding house (two different ones actually) like a local, speaking Indonesian, eating rice three times a day, using a bak mandi instead of a shower and a gayung (water bailer) in lieu of toilet paper. Just over a week ago, I flew to Lombok to meet up with two old friends - one of one of my old boarding house buddies (first time in 14 years), and another friend from that time who lives on the island of Lombok, which is the next island east of Bali. 

In 1996, we were all good, studious, rather innnocent girls who could chat easily and argue passionately about anything. And find the best food around and eat ourselves stupid. In 2012, we are all three divorced, the other two each have a child each, but apart from that, not much has changed. We slipped into the old patterns so easily, it was like the years between had never happened.
Elly, Tito and Utty
Elly is Sasak - ethnically from Lombok. Her family owns a set of small cabins in the foothills of gunung Rinjani, the second highest volcano in Indonesia. We drove three hours through windy mountain roads to reach the village of Sembalun and their home away from home.
Lembah Rinjani
 Utty and I were not at all keen to climb Rinjani - it's a good couple of days to climb up and back and involves camping. It's spectacular up there, with caldera (crater lakes) filled with fish, but I'm happy to leave the leg work to the mountain goats. We spent a night up at the cabins enjoying the cool and catching up.

Elly and Utty at Lembah Rinjani



Does this make you think of an Indonesian Sound of Music?!

Utty and Tito
We also hit Kuta beach - Kuta Lombok, very different from Kuta Bali! Not a tourist to be seen - except for me with my fish belly lily white skin.

After the mountains, we had two days at the Sheraton Senggigi - my contribution to the holiday. I have wanted to stay there forever, because of the swimming pool. And I thought the boys would enjoy the water slide. I went down it more than a few times myself! You can see the ocean off Senggigi beach and the vague outline of Bali just beyond the horizon.

Laura and Tito by the waterslide
 The last couple of days were spent at Elly's uncle's restaurant-come-fish-farm. A maze of fish ponds are fed by a natural spring, and huts are built over them in which you can eat your fresh-fish lunch.

Fish feeding frenzy
A gecko visits our room





Here I am looking rather the worse for the heat and humidity and I did eat myself nearly into a coma here. I had to lie down and rest to recover! But can you blame me? There was honey cooked fish, green chilli cooked fish, calamari, eggroll, spicy vegetables, rice (of course)..

It was a spectacular holiday and so unspeakably wonderful to be catching up with old friends and finding that while time changes some friendships, others endure across languages, cultures and years... More later, this weary traveller is ready to rest!


20 comments:

  1. Yay, you're back! So fab to read about your holiday, looking forward to hearing more about it :-D

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  2. What a great time with your friends.

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  3. I love meeting up with friends & finding the time apart hasn't changed anything. :)
    Glad to hear you had such a wonderful visit!

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  4. It looks like a wonderful time. Welcome home.

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  5. Laura it looks amazing!
    I have been to Bali 3 times and somewhere as wonderful, but without the crowds, seems like heaven! Lucky you to have such awesome friends too x

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  6. What a fun holiday and some great photos too! I would love to visit Indonesia some day. :) As a college student I spent time in south India, so your post brings back good memories for me (even the feeling of eating til your stuffed while being uncomfortably hot, not recommended!). ;)

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  7. Seriously, my kinda holiday....looks like you had fun (yay!) but I am glad you are back :-)

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  8. Wow, not that is a great holiday!

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  9. What a great adventure! I'm so glad you were able to go! -Jeanne

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  10. Welcome back...looks like you had a wonderful time. Thanks for sharing you pics

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  11. Looks like a great holiday! Welcome back jodie

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  12. I loved reading about your trip. Thank you or sharing.

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  13. Glad you had such a good time! And wow... you ARE white!! Bahahaha!

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  14. fantastic laura - i've been to bali just once, for a wedding, and didn't get to lombok - read about it though - looks sensational

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  15. How incredibly beautiful! That is the test of true friendship, when you can be away for so many years and pick up as if it were yesterday!

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  16. Looks like you had a great holiday. Welcome home.

    Is it just me, or is that a REALLY big gecko?

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  17. Welcome home, looks like a fab trip :o)

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  18. Nothing like "old" gals getting together after the passage of time. What a way to enjoy Bali...and those bags were gorgeous! Back to reality now :(

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  19. Looks and sounds like you had a wonderful time.

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